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The development of self-criticism can unfold through a process of fear of the powerful other and the need to self-monitor to avoid stirring their anger. Gilbert explains: ‘It’s about identifying the complex functions of the critic as a safety strategy. History is full of self-deprecation and efforts to appease and sacrifice to powerful gods because we are frightened of them, but we also want them to protect us. If we step on a twig that disturbs a sleeping lion, we tell ourselves off. In both cases we blame ourselves because our own behaviour is the only possible source of control.’ Gilbert uses plenty of metaphor and storytelling in his work. ‘These can be playful and even wonderful fun,’ he says. ‘We continue to learn from our clients about what works and what doesn’t.’

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Victory today 

- and Dick’s story

Today a judicial review has found that people with severe mental illness are at a disadvantage when going through the Work Capability Assessment (WCA). It is a great victory. But people like me and my son have known how unfair WCA is for months, and Rethink Mental Illness needsyour support to keep the fight going.

Please donate what you can to Rethink Mental Illness

Me and my son’s horrific experience with the unfair WCA

My son first became unwell with bipolar disorder when he was 19, and since then he’s had some extremely tough times, including being hospitalized on five occasions and sectioned three times. He has been unable to live independently or to go back to work for longer three months due to his mental illness.

He tried volunteering at a relative’s company, but he had to stop because he was becoming disruptive to his colleagues and his mental health was rapidly deteriorating. I would hesitate to say he’d never be able to work again, but I think that’s likely to be the case. Staying at home, he feels safe – it has stopped him from reaching the extremities of his bipolar disorder.

So when my son applied for Employment & Support Allowance (ESA), we were surprised and annoyed that he was judged as being capable of going back to work and assigned to the Work Related Activity Group. This meant that he would have to prepare for an eventual return to work, and would only receive ESA for a year.

This came as a terrible shock for him because the answers he had given on his form made it clear that he was not capable of work. We thought he would have a face-to-face assessment with Atos, and his mental health advocate told us we should wait for this before appealing the decision. But my son was never invited to attend a meeting with Atos – there was no in-depth medical assessment of his situation.

Please donate so that Rethink Mental Illness advisers can help people going through the WCA

Because we were waiting for the face-to-face assessment, we were late in submitting an appeal, and so we had to wait another six months before the appeal was heard at a tribunal. Thankfully, the judge at the tribunal had taken the time to read the medical evidence from our son’s psychiatrist and community psychiatric nurse. He was completely dismissive of the Department of Work & Pensions (DWP)’s original assessment, and didn’t even need to ask a single question about his condition – he just said “It is a win, win, win for you Mr Acworth”.

It was an overwhelming experience, and I was nearly in tears – a combination of relief, exhaustion, and anger at having been put through all this. Our son just kept his thoughts to himself. A few days later we received the decision of the appeal – that my son was entitled to ESA with the “support group”, meaning that he would not be expected to prepare for a return to work.

We thought this was the final decision and we were delighted. However, five days later we received another letter from “medical services”, asking him to fill in the initial questionnaire for ESA – the form my son had already filled in 9 months earlier – he was being asked to start the whole process again!

I was furious, and wrote letters to the DWP, the local mental health trust, Atos and our MP. At the same time I tried to protect my son from what was going on, to avoid him becoming more disturbed by the whole process than he already was.

Eventually the DWP called me to apologise for what had happened – it seems there had been a problem with communication between departments. But if my son didn’t have parents to support him, I don’t know what he would have done – he might have thought he’d have to go through the whole thing again, or he might have simply given up like so many seem to.

It has been an incredibly difficult process. I try as much as I can to shield my son from the stress, but I’m 75 now, and this has taken a real toll on me and his mother. I really fear for other people going through the Work Capability Assessment who don’t have anyone to support them– I think people must just give up, and end up in an awful situation.

That’s why I’m now working as an advocate for other people going through the process, and that’s why I’m asking you to give to Rethink Mental Illness. People like me and my son need support from their amazing advisers and their tireless campaigning for fairness. Today’s ruling is massive step forward for my son and others like him, please help us keep going.  

Please donate what you can to Rethink Mental Illness now

Woody Woodpecker, astronaut, in the 1950’s film “Destination Moon”

Woody Woodpecker, astronaut, in the 1950’s film “Destination Moon”

integration involves increased attention to managing illness and self-exploration to find personal meaning in illness. In fact, a critical element of making durable lifestyle changes is exploring self and restructuring to support change. Persona lstrategies lead to changes in life patterns in which illness is no longer primary, illness intrusiveness is minimized, and attention to meaningful life events is recommenced. Trial and error allows idealized expectations to transform into reality; creating workable routines and experiencing positive outcomes reinforces changes and increases the likelihood of lasting change.

Superbetter - Helping Trauma Clients Find Meaning - Creating a hero narrative.

http://counselingoutfitters.com/vistas/vistas08/Abernathy_Article_19.pdf

Will the grass be greener in a week

Will the grass be greener in a week

TODAY’S THE DAY! Find out more about this project here. There is currently 75% off the kindle version of ‘Thaw‘ (99p in UK / $1.49 in US). To see your name here, email me satya@writingourwayhome.com (with your blog if you have one, or any other details of what you’ll be doing today, Friday the 10th of May). So far 125 people are also taking part on Facebook – they are currently posting their links here.

my fav tree

my fav tree

Murder mystery jigsaw complete

Murder mystery jigsaw complete

Adventure in Manhattan (1936) (by woodstanwyckII)

I want this rare book #1890s #design #interiors

cuddly felix cat

cuddly felix cat

growing plants & Feynman documentary have made pain bearable today

growing plants & Feynman documentary have made pain bearable today

I grew some tulips, I’m really chuffed!

I grew some tulips, I’m really chuffed!

#book #poddelusion #paleofantasy The most fruitful chapter is that on medicine. Genomics is now revealing our tangled interactions with infectious agents, one of the main consequences of our domestication of animals over the last 10,000 years. A gene known as CCR5-delta confers resistance to Aids if there are two copies (one from each parent). Tracing the emergence of this gene variant has involved tracking the course of the Black Death and smallpox. Plague has now been eliminated as the source of this gene, but smallpox is more likely. The complexity of these questions is highlighted by the discovery that CCR5-delta increases susceptibility to the recently evolved West Nile disease. There are no perfect fits or fixes, but it is painstaking work like this that will help us cope with whatever comes next, not a prescription for a stone age diet.

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